|Padua House B&B - Cathedral Street, Armagh|
On the road to the North from the Republic, we paged through a guidebook entitled Bed and Breakfast Ireland by Elsie Dillard and Susan Causin. The book mentioned only four B&Bs in Armagh. One B&B stood out - Padua House on Cathedral Road. The text began...
Guests are made to feel like part of the family at Padua House. Mr and Mrs O'Hagan are a friendly, welcoming couple who thoroughly enjoy their visitors. The family lounge is shared with guests, who are encouraged to join the owners after a busy day's touring. A hot drink is almost always available.
I had an older version of the guide. Mr O'Hagan had passed away by the time we visited. But the authors could not have been more accurate about Mrs. O'Hagan. Staying with her was like staying as an invited guest in someone's home. There was no sterility or formality, just casual, genuine warmth. We were invited to have tea and treats when we arrived well after dark in April of 1998.
During the course of that stay, Kathleen and I chatted about both being widows. Her sympathy for my widowhood at such a young age was so strong. We talked endlessly about the Troubles in the North, and I was able to get a first hand interview with someone who had lived through the worst of it. We talked about coincidences and how people are brought together. We talked about the Trinity and the meaning of 3's and how the number 3 surfaces in our lives to remind us of God's presence.
The address of Padua House was "63" Cathedral Street. We discovered together that the "6" (the sum of two 3s) and the 3 = three 3s ... same as the Trinity. Kathleen reminded me that 7 was God's number, reserved only for him. A reminder of his divinity.
I believe Padua House was a thin place, and that Kathleen O'Hagan was a subtle messenger in my life.
I wrote and entire blog post about Padua House and Kathleen - Armagh: Twin Symbols of Conflict and Unity - where I detail coincidences and synchronicity that led me to the house and shaped my experience of Armagh and the North. Two years later I returned to Ireland with a new husband. We stayed at Padua House with Kathleen and her hospitality was just as rich as in 1998.
Dan and I always hoped we would return to Padua House and see Kathleen again. She had this motherly magnetism. I wanted to tell her about my writing and how it was coming along, how the kids were grown and the grandchildren arriving. I wanted to ask her about the shift in the conflicts between Catholics and Protestants since occupation ended. I wanted to chat with her about more thin places in the North. Unfortunately, a meeting with Kathleen and a return to Padua House will never happen.
Yesterday, I received a comment on the blog post about Armagh that mentioned Kathleen. A local Armagh resident who knew Kathleen mentioned that she has passed away earlier this year.
I looked up her obituary online and found two conflicting dates of death - March 7th and July 3rd. Evidently one of the posts transposed the numbers - 3/7 or 7/3. Kathleen's special numbers.
Rest in Peace, dear friend.
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